For today, I thought I would share with you the lowest point of my divorce. My daughter was about three months old, I'd left my ex when I was six months pregnant. He was at the hospital when she was born and I'd done my best to keep him involved with her, although I was breastfeeding at the time, so it was difficult. But even with the difficulties we were having, I allowed him in my home to spend time alone with her, we'd go for walks to the park with both children and to get groceries. We even went to the fair together. I made it clear that my sole interest was ensuring he spend time with both of our children, and stood back on some of these occasions to let him take the lead (lest he think it was some kind of opportunity to rekindle the relationship).